Sweet Transitions: Returning to School After the Holidays

The High Holidays are such a special time… filled with family gatherings, meaningful traditions, and plenty of out-of-the-ordinary moments. But with Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and Sukkot all falling so close together, children can end up with nearly a month away from the structure of school. And just when they’ve begun to settle into new classrooms and routines, the rhythm is disrupted again. This happens every year, and it can be hard on everyone — children, parents, and teachers alike. Here are some tips to make that transition back to school easier:

Re-establishing routines is the best way to help children ease back in. A few days before returning to school, try setting consistent bedtimes and wake-ups again. Even small rituals, like laying out clothes the night before or enjoying a calm breakfast together, help children feel grounded.

You can also help children connect the sweetness of the holidays to the excitement of school. At bedtime or over dinner, invite your child to share one favorite Chag memory and one thing they’re looking forward to back at school. This gentle reflection bridges the joy of family time with the anticipation of classroom life.

For some children, extended time at home makes separating at drop-off harder. A simple goodbye ritual; a hug, a high-five, a secret handshake, or even a short phrase you repeat each morning — can give your child a sense of security and consistency.

And remember: our children mirror our energy. If parents approach the return to school with calm confidence and excitement, children will pick up on that.

Finally, keep in mind that Rosh Hashanah is all about new beginnings. The return to school is an opportunity for children to start fresh as well, with renewed curiosity, friendships, and joy in learning!

Wishing your family a Shana Tova! 🍎